“Men - y can they not just be up front with us women and give us a choice of being with a non-committed man?

[3gdl]

Tina-"I do not get how you can be in a relationship with someone and have affairs outside of that relationship and even when caught dead in the act continuously deny it! Men if you have done this please respond? Women if a man has put you through this please respond and if possible give me some advice? Or comments! I am just in a really bad position and hurting!"

Hello All,
This was a blog post that a person left on my page and I adressed it on my site, www.3guysdontlie.com. So, as i know that Philly1 offers a forum to socially dialouge, I decided to forward this to the community here on PHILLY1.com, to see if you guys can offer some words of advice.

I have posted a video response thats featured in the video section of this site. The footage is titled " Philly Vocalist Cezanne interview with Charles Gregory " , and we talk about her blog in the beginning hot topics. Her name is Tina. Her post asserted… “Men - y can they not just be up front with us women and give us a choice of being with a non-committed man?” As I was deeply moved by her story, I felt it was necessary to pursue this further with my cohorts on the tv show that I co-host, 3 Guys Don’t lie. We made the attempt to give a males perspective with regards to why some men respond the way we do when faced with challenging situations regarding our female counterparts.

This topic was very intriguing as this raised a major discussion with many of my friends on many web communities which, I would now like to thank for the dialogue. I also would like to recognize Soulgenesis, and Philly1 as it was because of them that many of us can have an outlet to reflect, on just a piece of the many problems that drive soo many of us ( men and women) apart. I hope that this video either sheds light or serves just as entertainment to you. If you have any advice on this pls respond, as i would love to not only help Tina but also, be enlightend myself with other perspectives.

Intellectually yours,
Charles Gregory

[Bob Shipman]

Most Women can't stand the truth, even if we have been in a relationship for years.

We (men) hate to hold back information, however from personal experience, the woman in my life would bash my brains in. Meaning my thoughts of lust and exotic ventures would not be received well. JUST MHO

[3gdl]

I feel you. So, are we ass guys wrong for the feelings we have?? Or is it a natural thing? Most will say that its a hyper-masculine and abusive way of thnking about women.

[Bob Shipman]

The author of Think and Grow Rich book states that Men does not settle down using the sow our oats theory until age 44-45.

Thats the norm, but you have men that settle in earlier, cause the are burning that sexual energy in another direction.

Look, I have been married 30 years, personal experience is enuf fo me.

[3gdl]

have you ever been stuck in an uncompromising position and felt the need to lie to your wife because you was not sure of what her reaction should be.

[Bob Shipman]

YES! Exactly even when I was trying my heart out to do the right thing... But if she knew Our relationship would have been on the ropes.

She also started to dig into things that was not for her eyes and WHAM...it knocked her to her knees.